As the world progresses, civilized disease has always been one of the most common problems for modern people. In June, the Queen of the Netherlands, Inés Zorreguieta, hanged himself.
The most surprising thing besides her identity, more importantly, Inés Zorreguieta is a psychologist herself, and her field of study is suicide psychology. She once said in her paper that the most effective way to commit suicide is Hanging up, but she is on the road to her own research results…
Inés Zorreguieta University was a psychology. In 2010, he published a paper on the relationship between gender differences and suicide-related behaviors. The paper discussed: What causes women to choose to end their lives.
It is mentioned that it is often related to the crisis of interpersonal relationships. Among the women who commit suicide, singles and separations are the majority, but the overall data seems to be slightly lower than that of men. The reason is that when girls commit suicide, they still worry that their appearance after death is too ugly, so they are most popular with “hanging”.
After graduating from college, Inés Zorreguieta became a psychologist. Later he followed his father’s footsteps and became a government official in Argentina. In 2013, the Queen of the Netherlands abdicated. After Prince William was enthroned, the sister of Inés Zorreguieta became the king of the Netherlands.
Inés Zorreguieta’s mental condition has not been very good. In 2012, she also received psychological treatment for a period of depression, and her father’s death also caused her a big blow.
I didn’t expect Inés Zorreguieta to succumb to the level of my heart, or to commit suicide. When everyone expressed their condolences to the Inés Zorreguieta family, there was also a topic on the table. Inés Zorreguieta is a professional psychologist and should be more than most people. Can understand the complex psychological state, then why can’t you go out and choose the way to self-knot?
In fact, studying psychology can objectively analyze and maintain rationality in the face of others, but it does not mean that when you fall into a low tide, you can rationally “handle” your emotions. It is because of understanding that they may It is harder for ordinary people to get rid of this melancholy.
The counselor’s consultation, for them, is also very clear to them, and will know what the purpose is. It is because it is too clear to understand, so it is really difficult to save yourself.
When a person can think enough about whether he or she has mental illness, but can’t get rid of these diseases by himself, there are ways to save people, but they can’t save their own heart. No matter what causes the depression of Inés Zorreguieta, she has to go through others. This level is only harder.
Moreover, the outside world thinks that the psychologists must look at things differently from others. They feel that their psychology is relatively healthy, but it is because of this prejudice that they are paralyzed about seeking medical treatment and even self-help. What? Holding the title of “psychologist” may also be the last straw to crush her.
Maybe this is a case, but the message conveyed by this incident, I think, like many suicides, a little more care about one more greeting, maybe let them know that they are not alone, maybe they will see people There is temperature and warmth, and that kind of regret will be reduced a lot.